Hello and Welcome Recovery Friends, Readers, and New Friends!
I have another wonderful treat for my blog friends and visitors of a new book share and special ‘Guest Spotlight today!
Now tell me? Doesn’t this beautiful little girl just melt your HEART?
Please meet precious Marley Barr!
Releasing November 10th! You can also order
an autographed copy directly from the site for $15
April 14, 2011″I hear her breathing—that raspy up and down cadence I have listened to for the past three weeks. The relentless noise makes it impossible to sleep. It is 2:00am and I have been listening to this creature agonize me for the past two hours. Why do I fear her so much? She is my own flesh and blood, yet I lie here silently wondering if I will be here in the morning. What kind of father am I?
What kind of father secretly plots opportunities to quietly disappear in the middle of the night instead of facing another day with his daughter? For two weeks I prayed for God to heal her, but of course he ignored my desperate cries. What kind of God would allow my daughter to suffer when I offered my own life to heal her? God and I both know the future she will have if she continues to live. She will be mocked, pitied, ignored, and told how she is different from everyone else. When people look at her, they will only notice her differences and not her similarities.
The Down syndrome parents I read about are only tricking themselves into thinking their child is normal. All of my friends have normal children who they can watch grow and develop, but not us. My daughter will never go to college, never get married, never have children, and never experience the intimacy of being touched by someone that truly loves her” …
“What some are saying about “Failing At Fatherhood”
“Heartbreaking yet hopeful, Failing at Fatherhood is a compelling, honest look at one man’s struggle to become the father that he wants to be.”
– S. A. Bodeen
Award Winning Children Author
Author of The Compound and The Gardener
“Raw. Emotional. Honest. That’s Jack Barr, wearing his emotions on his sleeve, in his book Failing at Fatherhood. If you’ve ever been traumatized by the birth of an imperfect baby, if you’ve ever found yourself in the pit of despair questioning God and wondering how you will cope, the story of Jack, his wife Jana, and their precious little Marley will not only touch your heart, it will wrench it. But there is hope in their story—the hope that only a good God can bring. Read Failing at Fatherhood and prepare to be changed.”
– Dr. Woodrow Kroll
Former President and Senior Bible Teacher of
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So I felt it important to share a little of Marley’s and her father’s story with all of you. Just a few facts about Down Syndrome you may not know which can be found here: http://www.ndss.org/Down-Syndrome/Down-Syndrome-Facts/
Down syndrome occurs when an individual has a full or partial extra copy of chromosome 21. This additional genetic material alters the course of development and causes the characteristics associated with Down syndrome.
- There are three types of Down syndrome: trisomy 21 (nondisjunction) accounts for 95% of cases, translocation accounts for about 4% and mosaicism accounts for about 1%.
- Down syndrome is the most commonly occurring chromosomal condition. One in every 691 babies in the United States is born with Down syndrome.
- There are more than 400,000 people living with Down syndrome in the United States.
- Down syndrome occurs in people of all races and economic levels.
- The incidence of births of children with Down syndrome increases with the age of the mother. But due to higher fertility rates in younger women, 80% of children with Down syndrome are born to women under 35 years of age.
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Jack Barr ~ (Athletic Director)
Author of Failing at Fatherhood
“When my daughter was born, I told my wife I did not want her. I spent an entire year depressed because I believed everything society told me about having a daughter with Down syndrome. Now she is the joy of my life. She is not a monster, she is not ugly, she is not retarded, and she is not a burden on our family. She is a beautiful little girl that brings joy to our daily lives. I understand the fear of having a child that is different, so I want to encourage you to consider taking the road less traveled and see the beautiful things a child with Down syndrome can show you.” – Jack Barr
So again, I ‘Thank The Barr Family’ for letting me share their story with all my friends and all who visit here, and I hope you get inspired to take action in away you feel can help spread Marley’s story, and New Author Jack Barr and his soon to be released book. Just as I advocate of the important issues that have touched my own life? “LET’S GIVE THEM A VOICE TO BE HEARD ABOUT DOWN SYNDROME”
As many know I’m always ready to help lend a hand to help others! We need to support one another as our God asks of us according to his words in the gospel. It’s how I try to live my life! That’s what our life purpose should be about …
Please Connect with Marley and her family on Twitter @jackjanamarley and on YouTube! http://www.youtube.com/user/IfTheyHadAVoice/ and of course connect on Facebook! https://www.facebook.com/IfTheyHadAVoice
Much Happiness & Blessings All,
Catherine Townsend-Lyon, Author